Hello and welcome!

My name is Trevor Godwin, and I'm honored to be the founder of Project You Are Loved.

As my mother battled the end stages of cancer, I found myself at a loss. She fought hard! However, her physical and emotional pain was overwhelming. I desperately wanted to comfort her but struggled to find a meaningful way—until an idea sparked.

I emailed my contacts, requesting that they send my mother a card with the simple message, "You are loved." I also asked them to pass this email along to anyone they knew. And you know what? They did forward that email, and the response was overwhelming. People from all walks of life, from her friends and family to complete strangers, sent cards to lift her spirits. The gesture was small, but my mother felt special and loved with every card she opened.

Though my mother eventually passed away, the experience left a lasting impact on me. I realized the power of gathering people from all over to support someone in need. I founded “Project You Are Loved” in honor of my mother, Christine Lynn Gross.

Our goal is simple: to remind those struggling that they are seen, thought of, and loved. Whether it's a mother, a father, a friend, or even a stranger, we believe everyone deserves to feel the warmth and comfort of a community rallying behind them.

Christine Gross is shown smiling in her son and sons then boyfriends San Francisco home. She has short blond hair, a diamond necklace and a v-neck sweater.
Black and white photo of Christine Lynn Gross and her Old English Sheepdog Maddie. Chris is 50 years old her and had not yet been diagnosed with cancer yet. She is seen with long brown hair, hugging Maddie in her lush Northern Californian backyard.
After Christine Lynn Gross started chemotherapy she lost all her hair. Her children decided to throw her a hat party to make light of the situation. The photo shows Chris/Christine with no hair, smiling and holding a hat she was gifted.
Image of her son Trevor Godwin and her hugging and smiling inside San Francisco's City Hall the evening of November 4, 2008. Her son had just married his partner Paul Rubenstein.

Who Benefits from Project You Are Loved?

  • Individuals battling illness

    For all the brave warriors fighting against illness, we see you and stand with you. PYAL cards carry them messages of hope, strength, and unwavering support, becoming cherished mementos that brighten even the darkest days.

  • Seniors longing for meaningful connections

    Aging gracefully shouldn't mean aging in isolation. For older adults residing in care facilities or spending their days alone, we want to offer more than just a card; we want to extend a lifeline of love, bringing joy, warmth, and a sense of belonging back into their lives.

  • Families navigating loss or adversity

    Love and support anchor us during life's storms. For families coping with loss, illness, or other hardships, PYAL provides solace and a reminder that a caring community envelops them.

  • Friends in need of a heartfelt lift

    Life often presents unexpected challenges that can leave one feeling disheartened or needing support. That's precisely where we come in. Our cards help to turn their day around, reminding them that they are never alone on their journey.

  • Those battling invisible struggles

    Many individuals face silent battles—wrestling with anxiety, depression, or self-doubt. They deserve recognition, support, and a constant reminder of their strength. By nominating them, you become a beacon of light in their lives, helping them discover their resilience and inherent worth.

  • Anyone needing a smile

    We all could use a little extra love and cheer from time to time. Project You Are Loved is the perfect choice for anyone who needs a gentle reminder that they are seen, valued, and cherished. Surprise a colleague, neighbor, or even a stranger with a heartfelt card, and witness the uplifting transformation it brings.

Why use Project You Are Loved?

  • We Make it Easy

    We’ve made it easy and affordable to send warmth and care to someone. Each card purchased includes your message handwritten by us and shipping. It’s a comprehensive, hassle-free solution for spreading joy and compassion.

  • Support During Hardship

    Project You Are Loved offers a unique way to reach out to those experiencing life's challenges. Whether it’s hardship, loss, or illness, our cards provide a vehicle for your expression of support and understanding.

  • The Delight of Receiving Mail

    In a digital world, receiving physical mail has become a rare and special occasion. Project You Are Loved revives this joy, turning every card into a delightful surprise that stands out in the recipient’s day, whether it’s one, ten, or fifty cards!

  • The thrill of doing good

    Sending a card through PYAL is a fulfilling experience for the sender as well. The act of choosing a card and writing a message of support, love, or encouragement creates a shared moment of joy and connection, benefiting both parties emotionally.

“Chris was getting cards from all over! Receiving them boosted her spirits, even when she felt absolutely terrible. Just the thought that people cared about her made a difference.”

— Mark, husband to Chris”